Day #8 Feeling kind of great, Day #9 la la la bliny bline...

Day 08 → Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit.

This post is not hard to do. It is really pretty simple. I wrote of it in the person I need to forgive.

Reader’s Digest Condensed version is my old boss made my life hell and treated me like shit. Since I am on the forgiveness path, I will leave it at that.



But then there is Day 9

Day 09 → Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted.

Day 08 → Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit.




This post is not hard to do. It is really pretty simple. I wrote of it in the person I need to forgive.

Reader’s Digest Condensed version is my old boss made my life hell and treated me like shit. Since I am on the forgiveness path, I will leave it at that.



But then there is Day 9

Day 09 → Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted.

This post was a little harder.

There are many different reasons that people drift and many times it has nothing to do with you personally, it is that life hands you obstacles that are hard to get around.

I had a group of friends that drifted. These were good friends that I spent many hours with during my later high school/early college life. It was not because I wanted to drift, but had no choice. I was not right around the corner; I was a few towns away. I did not have a car at the time that was reliable enough to get me back and forth. Others had boyfriends that came into their lives and they spent more time with them. Me, I just existed.

Years later and with the help of Facebook, I have reunited with most of them. Some, still not so much, but others, I have seen more in the past few months than I had seen in the last 20 years.

The drifter that hurts the most though is #2. I have posted a few different times about him and how I can see that he is unhappy. It hurts to know that I cannot talk to him as I used to. It also is very sad that we had always been able to kid around and laugh and I don’t remember the last time I had seen his smile.

Jelly was confirmed in the Catholic religion this past Sunday. My entire family, those that live in the area, were there, except #2.

#2’s son and grandson were there but I never even heard a response back from #2. I know that his wife very much dislikes my son Jelly, but to not even respond?

I never hope for anything bad to happen to others…I really don’t. I hope though that #2 realizes that the misery he is in is worse for him than losing his family over it. Cut the cord and let the bitch fall.



This post was a little harder.

There are many different reasons that people drift and many times it has nothing to do with you personally, it is that life hands you obstacles that are hard to get around.

I had a group of friends that drifted. These were good friends that I spent many hours with during my later high school/early college life. It was not because I wanted to drift, but had no choice. I was not right around the corner; I was a few towns away. I did not have a car at the time that was reliable enough to get me back and forth. Others had boyfriends that came into their lives and they spent more time with them. Me, I just existed.

Years later and with the help of Facebook, I have reunited with most of them. Some, still not so much, but others, I have seen more in the past few months than I had seen in the last 20 years.

The drifter that hurts the most though is #2. I have posted a few different times about him and how I can see that he is unhappy. It hurts to know that I cannot talk to him as I used to. It also is very sad that we had always been able to kid around and laugh and I don’t remember the last time I had seen his smile.

Jelly was confirmed in the Catholic religion this past Sunday. My entire family, those that live in the area, were there, except #2.

#2’s son and grandson were there but I never even heard a response back from #2. I know that his wife very much dislikes my son Jelly, but to not even respond?

I never hope for anything bad to happen to others…I really don’t. I hope though that #2 realizes that the misery he is in is worse for him than losing his family over it. Cut the cord and let the bitch fall.